*The original version of this article was published August 13, 2009.
Now that we’re at mid-month (and also mid-quarter) you may start to feel a slowdown, or that you haven’t been keeping your eye on the target as much as you’d like.
You (like many of us) could be prone to doing your planning at the start of the month only to, two weeks later, look up and realize you’re not sure where you’re at with that plan — or where you should be focusing your attention.
A Mid-Month Review will help you get and stay on track.
This fits somewhere between a Weekly Review and a Monthly Review. The benefit of the mid-month version is that it’s a chance to sync up your higher perspective from monthly planning with the reality of how the month has gone. (It also happens to coincide with mid-month paychecks, and many of us need to look over finances anyway.)
You may resist doing a Mid-Month Review because you might feel that it’s just another chance for you to see where you’ve come up short. I get that, but let’s be real: your reach will always exceed your grasp. Our ability to imagine what we might do will always outpace our ability to actually do the things we’ve dreamed up.
So if you look at it as a way of measuring what you haven’t done, a review or check-in will always be a time for frustration and disappointment. But if you look at it as a way of evaluating where you are and how you’re going to move forward, you’ll see that it’s just a way of getting closer to your destination.
Below you’ll find six questions to ask yourself for your mid-month review. ✅👇
Let’s get to it.
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Always start with what you have done. It’s too easy to not give yourself credit for what you have done and instead focus on what you haven’t done, but that ultimately leads to frustration and resistance. Celebrate before you criticize.
Focus on what you’ve done at the weekly or project level — try to avoid the daily details, as it’s easy to nitpick yourself to death or spend too much time counting minutes.
Note to reader: Keep in mind that finishing a bunch of stuff is not a prerequisite to celebrating having done a bunch of stuff. Give yourself credit for pushing a project forward, even if you didn’t finish it.
You now have two work-weeks left in the month. If there hasn’t been movement on some goals or projects in the first two weeks, what needs to change?
Be realistic here: don’t assume that the amount of time you’ll put in will change unless you have a really good reason to think it will.
You’d think I’d ask this first, but it’s often hard to see what your priorities are in the abstract. Now that you’ve been thinking about goals and projects, it’s easier to see which ones should win the project cagematch.
Be brutally honest at this point: if you have four or five priorities, you really don’t have any priorities. One is best, three is okay.
Ask yourself the following question: If I could do only one (or three) of these, which would I do?
Remember, a real priority creates displacement and excludes all the possible things you might do. Let in too many possibilities and your “priorities” are meaningless.
Rather than lose time in freakout mode as you try to switch funds at the last minute, go ahead and review your bills and get your money in place now. If you need to transfer money from online accounts, allow yourself a day or two of cushion so you’re not worried about whether it’ll hit the right account at the right time.
If you don’t have the funds you’ll need, what are you doing in the meantime to get those funds? Do you need to complete one paid project before another? Readjust your plan to account for your financial constraints.
We all have frogs that need catching. The trick is to catch them before they get too big, hairy, and warty.
A few common frogs:
Tip: Plan a time to do them if you need to get them done; leaving them open increases the chance they’ll continue to slide.
The surest way to burnout and stuckness is to work like crazy without rewarding yourself for the hard work. If your work is your reward, then you’ve got a leg up here, but it’s still good to do something different. If nothing else because it prompts the creative process.
Make an appointment to the spa for a massage if that’s your thing. Have a poker party or go out with the girls. Give yourself the afternoon to play video games or read. But ensure that you do two things: 1) put it on your calendar and 2) make sure whatever you do is more engaging than your work or you’ll still be working in your head.
Give yourself about 30 minutes to go through the questions.
And remember: a review or check-in is not a tie to be dragged down by the past — it’s a time to be inspired by the future you’re building. Ready to get started?
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